Domination

Domination can be part of erotic role play and many different ways depending on what you are into. Some people enjoy being dominated physically, some people like being dominated mentally or verbally.

It may be a role play that follows a script or which has a setting. Examples of that type of role play are slave or dog training or Teacher-pupil, Warden-prisoner, Adult-child. If you are not into role plays, naturally domination works just fine without a specific script.

If bondage or physical punsihment turns you on you are into physical domination. If bullying, forcing, threatening etc turns you on, you are into mental domination. Making a slave carry out tasks can be both physical and mental domination.

Domination is not violence. Domination is acting out a fantasy. Because all of us have different kinds of fantasies it is important that you (the submissive) tell me more about your fantasies and what they mean to you.

The Dominant (Lady Domina) finds the right way of dominating the submissive by learning more about him and his weak spots.

On the other hand, the submissive can only learn what turns him on in reality and what works only as a fantasy by experimenting and trying things out.