Pain as Pleasure

Pain is not always a necessary part of BDSM. But many people enjoy pain provided that it is inflicted the right way — so that it feels enjoyable and even turns you on.

I can inflict pain by:

• Spanking, whipping, flogging, slapping
• Using clamps and weights
• Using electro stimulation

Pain can turn you on in many different ways. Some people get turned on just by for instance thinking of being spanked or being threatened to be spanked. In that case when it comes to the real session, threatening can be enough — and not much real pain will even be needed - whereas some people enjoy their pain threshold and limits really being stretched.

Before we start our session I will ask you whether I can inflict pain and if yes, what I can do and how hard. Also, if you have any other experiences in the past it can be useful for me to hear about those.

During our session I will keep an eye on you and your reactions. Usually it is very easy to see from the other person's reactions what the pain feels like - whether it is enjoyable or too hard. Before the session starts we will naturally agree on a safe word which you can use if you want to stop the session or too harsh treatment.