How Does a BDSM Session Work?

At the beginning of our session, I want to have a chat with you and ask about a few things to be able to create a session that works for you.

We will go through the following questions:

• Have you got a specific fantasy in mind that you would like us to try?
• What turns you on?
• What BDSM techniques can I use with you?
• Do you enjoy pain?
• Can you be marked?
• Can you tell me about any relevant good or bad experiences you have had?
• Do you want the session to include any intimate sexual contact (masturbation, oral, sex)? Or do you want a session that is just BDSM?
• Have you got any health problems or anything else I should know?

Before our session starts we will also agree on a safe word or sign which you can use if you want to stop the session.

When the rules have been agreed and the payment has been made we can start. In a session, we will get into our roles and act out your fantasy. The session will be improvised as it happens, following your likes and respecting the limits you have stated.

Normally I prefer to go through the session without stopping it so that I can get into it and improvise but if you feel that something does not work quite as you wish then obviously we can stop for a little while to think how it should be done and then start again.

I prefer the climax of a session to be at the end. If you for instance want sex to be included that will normally take place at the end. But of course I am prepared to listen to your wishes as well and change the 'script' if you wish so.

At the end of our session you will be given a clean towel (included in the service) so that you can use the bathroom facilities.

The actual session is approximately 10-20 minutes shorter than the whole appointment because of the things we have to do at the beginning and end of our session.